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dontaskwonttell:

Sometimes I just really want to go off on people that cheat. Cheating is one of the few things that really pisses me off. I find it absolutely pointless and extremely stupid. There is really no reason to fuck with someone’s feelings, even if you KNOW you won’t get caught doing so. If you want to be with someone else or are not happy in your relationship, GET OUT OF IT. It’s not that hard, I promise. I don’t see how people can so easily forgive someone who has betrayed them, also. If your significant other cheats on you, what would be the obvious choice? Mmm yeah, you should probably kick their ass to the curb, not take them back! And seriously, if you find out someone random you know has been the person your significant other has been going behind your back with, I would hold a pretty mean grudge, not readily forgive them. They knew what they were doing just as much as the person you were dating. That’s not even the beginning of what would happen with me if I were to find out one of my close friends was being the homewrecker. Shit, I’d hate that girl’s guts instantaneously. We would NOT be friends, you can guarantee that. You would be just as stupid to be friends with the person who was the homewrecker with your old boyfriend/girlfriend as you would be to take back the person who did the cheating. If you’re one of those people who can’t stand holding grudges or whatever, then yeah, forgive the person or persons. Just don’t be stupid enough to put yourself in the exact same position again or to make yourself vulnerable emotionally. Unless, I guess, you like the shitty feelings that come with those choices.